If you’ve been diving into attachment styles, you’re either an attachment nerd like me, or your relationships don’t quite feel the way you want them to. You might feel anxious or nervous when your partner goes quiet. You might have a hard time when your partner shares a concern or brings up an issue, worrying that you’re missing the mark again. You might even resonate with both of those experiences. Your relationships can feel really good when things are good, but really disc